Friday, February 7, 2020

Intrinsic Motivation Creates Productivity

People are often surprised by how much I’ve authored, illustrated, and overall published in my thirty-one years. Sometimes it astonishes me too, particularly when I think about how little time I spend “working” in contrast to most people.
One large difference between me and many of my peers is that I have the same understanding that Teal presents in this video, How to be Productive:
You can’t expect good results when you’re fighting with yourself.
If you hate what you’re doing, you’re not going to achieve maximum productivity. Furthermore:
Focus on your area of excellence.
When I was reading First, Break All The Rules, I learned that studies have confirmed something I’ve always intuitively known:
You have a greater capacity for improving the area you already excel in than you do for improving your weak points.
Savvy business professionals today know that they’re better off investing their time, energy, and resources into their strengths and the strengths of their employees. There isn’t much to be gained by investing the same time, energy, and resource into someone’s weaknesses because they simply won’t improve that much. Yet when you invest the same amount into someone’s strengths they rapidly soar far, far, far above average. This increases an individual’s enjoyment of life and their work while simultaneously contributing more to human society at large.

Enhancing Strengths, Managing Weaknesses

Weaknesses can’t be ignored completely, so they have to be managed through awareness and compensating factors. For example, if you’re poor at being polite then you may need to have someone else communicate politely for you, such as a secretary. In contrast, investing two months into improving your “nice-ness” may or may not be particularly valuable, particularly when you can invest those same two months into your primary skill instead. You will struggle to gain ground with your weaknesses, particularly if you’ve already tried before to improve those areas of your life without much fruit. I’m not saying you should entirely abandon anything you aren’t immediately good at – obviously everyone needs the ability to communicate, to receive intimacy, to maintain their health, and so on. But the largest investment should go into your strengths. Your strengths can shine!
Your natural inspiration, motivation, inclinations, and desires will lead you in the direction of your strengths anyway, so you don’t actually have to do much to ensure this happens. Rather, you must simply stop trying so hard to fix your so-called flaws.

Following my inspiration to tie-dye clothing.

A Natural Disposition for Productivity . . . That Disguises Itself as Being Recalcitrant

I’ve always been really resistant to working on my flaws, as well as really resistant to doing things that didn’t intrinsically motivate me. And when I say “really resistant” – I mean that I could hardly bring myself to do these things when it was really vital for me to do so. I’ve struggled terribly with being anyone else’s employee because I need my own internal motivation behind my actions to achieve any level of productivity. Often my intrinsic desires have seemed counter to being productive, but I’ve followed them anyway. For example, sometimes I feel like painting all day and I have no particular intention for how the art will improve my life or my skills. Yet most of the art I've created has ended up going into my board games at some point in time, even as much as ten years after I originally created the art.

Following my inspiration to paint.
Whenever I’ve tried really, really hard to focus on “productive” things that I didn’t feel intrinsically motivated to do, my productivity would briefly spike (for maybe a day), and then plummet to nothing thereafter. In other words, something about my psychological makeup has rendered me incapable of doing anything but what Teal suggests in the aforementioned video. Let me give you the cliff notes from the video in case you don't feel like watching it:

Some of Teal's Productivity Tips

  1. Intrinsic motivation. When your behavior is driven by internal rewards, you will be productive.
  2. Act on inspiration immediately. One of the biggest mistakes people make is that they don’t ride the wave of intrinsic motivation fast enough.
  3. Deal with resistance the minute it arises.
  4. Do what you are excellent at.
  5. Don’t think in terms of hours; think in terms of results.
  6. Focus on the first priority item all the way to completion until moving on to the next.
  7. Become aware of where your energy is going.
  8. Delegate appropriately.
  9. De-clutter.
  10. When you feel a lull in productivity happening, stop and re-evaluate.
  11. Create systems.
  12. Embrace struggles.
Want all of Teal's productivity tips? There are fifteen in this video: How to be Productive, and she expands more on the importance of valuing results over time in this video: Do You Want Success? Don't Value Your Time.

My Personal Production

Because my physiological makeup prevents me from doing anything other than what is outlined above, my creations often astonish people. I have been frequently called a “polymath” which is a term meaning a person with multiple significant talents. In truth, I'm not more capable than other people. In fact, being a highly sensitive person who is also on the autism spectrum has made my weaknesses very pronounced. (I expand some on my personality and its limitations on my post about being an INFJ and HSP.)
In my thirty-one years on this planet – it's now February 2020 as I write this – I’ve authored two recipe books, four nutritionally complete meal plans (which are also, in essence, recipe books), a comprehensive nutritional guide, a travel book on budgeting time and money, two intense strategy games (and two expansions), one party game (and five expansions), one light strategy game (that doubles as a recipe book), one shadow work process called Perspective Alchemy, and one coloring book. Within the next couple years I expect to publish at least one more board game or book, and as many as four if I am particularly inspired.
Editor's Note: Only a couple weeks after first writing this, I released the Alchemy Workbook.

My creations.
I didn’t struggle or suffer to illustrate my books, to photograph my recipes, to write my knowledge, to balance my games, or even to edit my work. I enjoy all of these processes so much that I do them for their own sake. The only tip on Teal’s list I’m failing to follow is delegation. (Well, that, and making lists. That tip actually didn’t work for me in the past; I found that lists robbed me of my internal motivation because I was trying to use the list as external motivation.) If I were to delegate someone else to sales and product management . . . That would be very smart. Are you good at that? Maybe you should apply to me for a job!
So which of these tips have you been following? How are they working for you? Visit my youtube channel to leave me a comment.
Blessings,
Raederle Phoenix
The Consciousness Alchemist

A Lovely “Coincidence”

PS: Within ten minutes of posting this article, facebook decided to show me a photo of me painting that I shared three years ago on this same day.
And, astonishingly, here is the very relevant captain I wrote for the photo:
Painting is a practice in consciousness. Like most presence-enhancing experiences, it feels like a “waste of time” to the part of us that craves significance, productivity, and accomplishment. The trick is getting that part of you on board with your child-like, creative, spontaneous, and present aspects of self.
To achieve this, set being incredibly present as a goal. Make it an achievement to spend time being present. Start viewing meditation as accomplishment, and zen activities as part of what makes you significant. If you can make this shift in perspective, then you can get your activity-addicted aspects on board with your present-playful aspects.
For me, one way I can do this is through painting. The part of me that wants “productivity” can see the paint spreading across the paper and feel that something is being “accomplished.” Meanwhile, my spontaneous, creative side is having a blast with color. While my calculating aspect wants me to be present with the paint-brushes because they were expensive and I don't want to ruin them, my creative side wants me to be present with the brushes because it makes more beautiful artwork.
This “allying process” of internal aspects of self is called integration. This is a key process that is at the heart of Consciousness Alchemy.

Thursday, February 6, 2020

Costa Rica Travel Preparations: Linen!

In preparing to go to Costa Rica I read many travel blogs. I was looking for packing list ideas, and of course, safety precautions. Of course, it's going to be hot and humid, which is part of what I love about the tropics. (If you're a student of Ayurveda you may recognize the vata in me needing warmth and moisture!)
In preparation for the weather, I've been looking at linen. Linen is a traditional fiber used by humans for thousands of years. It comes from flax. The lovely flax plant has been used as a source of both food and fiber, using the seeds as meal and oil, and the fiber to make fabric. Flax, unlike cotton, doesn't require the use of massive amounts of pesticides, so I feel comfortable with buying linen that isn't certified organic (which is nearly impossible to find anyhow – why bother certifying something that has such a cleaner process to begin with?).
I've been collecting a few linen items at thrift stores, but a huge problem for me with shopping for linen in this way is the smell. Thrift stores like Salvation Army use a terribly strong chemical detergent. I bought a lovely bag of clothes for around $40 in the summer, mainly consisting of silk and linen items I'd been delighted to find (while wearing my mask!) and then been highly disappointed when a simple run (or seven) through the wash didn't get the clothing wearable. So I resorted to soaking them in bathtub in our solarium for days on end, and then washing them again, and airing them outside. The smell is now mostly gone, so hopefully the linen I found in the summer will be wearable for the trip.
My wedding dress (photoed above, from my marriage to Greg in 2016) is linen, consisting of actually two dresses. I realized this past summer that the cream-colored under-dress actually is a great piece on its own (photo below), particularly when we're having a 100ºF day! So I'm definitely packing that! (The over-dress is a bit heavier, so I'm leaving that at home.)
In addition, I went onto Etsy and shopped for the most economical U.S.-based shops selling linen that I could find and ordered a few more pieces. My favorite finds were Sandara Eco based in California, and Linen Simply based in Massachusetts.
My hope is that my entire bag of clothes (excepting my PACT-brand panties and socks of organic cotton) will be linen, which is lighter, wicks sweat better, and gets less smelly. Equipped with my own home-blended essential-oil clothing freshener, I should be able to lay out my clothes at night, spray them, and have them feel fresh for days.
In my reading of travel blogs I became a bit paranoid about theft for a while, but then I realized I probably don't have to worry since my path is so straight-forward. I'm only going to two locations: Philia Retreat Center, for my Completion Process Practitioner training, and then afterward, La Joya del Sol for some tropical, raw food rejuvenation. And, Lytenian is coming with me! We're finally going to have a honeymoon – in our tenth year of marriage! We'll be enjoying a week together walking paths and enjoying tropical foods! (I have two husbands. Full story here.)
Some of you might be wondering why I need Completion Process training when I already authored my own process, Perspective Alchemy. The answer is that I probably don't need the training, but I expect I will still learn a lot, gain confidence, and of course, gain the certification. I know some of you may also be thinking I don't need more confidence since I already seem so self-assured, but there is a huge difference between putting up a very convincing front and having deep, inner confidence. Beautifully, the Completion Process (and any Consciousness Alchemy, really) helps build that deep, inner confidence for both the facilitator and the participant. Not to mention, the trip is going to be so fun and validating! I will probably experience the most heart-to-heart, mind-to-mind connections of my life during this training, as the other thirty to fifty participants in the training will also be on this same healing path of being and becoming healers of bodies and consciousness itself.
On a different line of travel preparations, I tried to find a eco swimsuit for my journey. I already have some swim gear, but most of it doesn't fit well, or is sagging, or is falling apart, or falls off too easily. (The swimsuit shown above has since stopped being functional.)
I have a single swim shirt that I like but the bottoms I got at the same time (around ten years ago) fell apart. Also, the swim shirt is too short and my back got a sunburn on the lower, exposed part when I wore it to swim on the nude cruise back in February, 2018. Yes, I wore a swim shirt on a nude cruise, as shown below. (I'm photographed with a friend I made on the cruise there. Good-looking guy, huh? He was also very kind and courteous.)
To my delight, a lot of eco-friendly swim options exist now. Some companies actually clean the oceans by collecting plastic from them and then recycle that plastic into swimsuits! Amazing! Many of them offer really sexy, beautiful swimsuits too.
Unfortunately, none of these companies offered the sort of full-cover shirt and bottoms I was looking for. (Well, one offered one that I thought was ugly and difficult to match for $80 and they were sold out of my size anyway.) I was hoping for long-sleeves, a little neck protection, full torso coverage, and matching shorts that went down to about my knees. Ideally, in a fun paisley-purple pattern!
So, after thoroughly stressing out about the issue for a day, I had a small epiphany: I can just wear my cotton sports bra and matching underwear that already look like a swimsuit. (The actual bra and panties I'm referred to are seen in my latest youtube video where I made a trench coat from upcycled jeans. It's kinda like an Easter egg in the video, although you can't miss it if you watch the whole video.) Since the cruise, I have discovered that I can wear Badger sunscreen safely (YES! YES! WOOT!), so I no longer actually have to cover up completely while swimming anyhow, and furthermore, I can throw on a linen dress when I get out of the water which will be quick-drying. So there is a whole solution where I don't have to pay $80-$90 for a swim shirt I don't really like that much and then another $50 for some swim shorts that I also don't like that much. I mean, the thing is, even though eco-polyester is better for the planet, I still hate wearing polyester at all, so I feel really relieved and happy about having come to this solution.
A big digital hug to all my friends, fans, and followers who are a "J" on the J/P axis of Myers-Brigs! (I'm an INFJ.) I already feel like I'm in last-minute pack mode even though my trip is five weeks away! (This may also sound like Enneagram type One, but I've concluded I'm actually a type Four.)
Love & blessings,
Raederle Phoenix

Sunday, September 22, 2019

About Me, An INFJ — Using Other People's Words!

What if I wrote a description of myself only using quotes about INFJs? I wondered. As I began implementing this idea I realized it would be a little dry if I didn’t add some personal notes that were genuinely specific to my life experiences occasionally, so there are some statements below that are not in quotes that I have added. Also, I have adjusted the quotes to put them into first person so that it reads like I wrote this about myself, which, via compilation – I have.

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me – Raederle

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Career

“Sharing my insights through writing, counseling, and leadership makes me happy.”
I can be described as a “dreamer with a plan.” I “follow through on my ideas with conviction.” In fact, everything on this website reflects lifestyle choices and experiences that I’ve personally undertaken for at least a few months of my life (if not years). I don’t just repeat the revelations of others; I seek my own truth, walk my own truth, and then tout it from the rooftops if I deem it valuable enough. I “live for the opportunity to bring about positive change in the world.”
I “see through situations and people effectively and enjoy developing practical strategies for action.” I am a “creative problem-solver and I look for the emotional core of an issue to create a meeting of the minds.” When my clients have food cravings I look for both the physical cause and the emotional cause to help build an encompassing, healthier solution for them.
I “desire cooperation, but I am not willing to go along with an idea that does not feel authentic to me. When it comes to my core values and ethics, I am unwilling to compromise.” I once refused to put labels in the ground after planting a garden for someone because it would be littering. I “function best when I am in control of my life, environment, priorities, and schedule.” In fact, I only had a boss for about a year of my life (while I was a teenager) and I couldn’t stand it. I’ve been freelance since I was eighteen. (In 2022, I’m thirty-three.)
When I’m emotionally exhausted or disengaged, I’m not “always as diligent about the small stuff as I should be.” And when I “doubt myself, I struggle to stay committed, and exhaust myself in the process.” The thing is, “simply working to pay my bills will leave me feeling empty and restless. Sure, I can do routine tasks, but I must see how it fits into the bigger picture.”
I am “productive and effective when I make a concerted effort to focus on one project at a time. But my fertile imagination frequently undermines my efforts to stay focused. I will often start new projects based on fresh inspirations before old ones are finished. There is really nothing I can do to moderate the pace of their inspirations” and I can’t imagine wanting all my good ideas to stop coming anyway, “but if I constantly remind myself to slow down, I can sometimes resist the urge to go off on new tangents.” Ideally, I would work with others who were good at carrying out my visions so that I could see more of my ideas and projects completed.
I “require some amount of routine and orderliness to function at my best. I like planning because it gives me time to prepare. My plans tend to be fairly loose and flexible, however, because I am an N, not a S. A weekly calendar with a few things penned in serves me, but not an hour-by-hour day planner.”
“In my head, I’m constantly working out schedules and to-do lists, from tasks for the next five minutes to complex visualizations of what the next five years should look like. Obviously, these arrangements get adapted as things develop in different ways and situations change, but the point is, the plan is always there — even if I don’t write it down.” One of the best examples of this is my garden. At any given moment I have a vision for how I ultimately want my paradise to look, and whenever I am gardening I am working toward that vision. That said, the internal plan I have is revised at least a little every couple months, and it has gone through at least one major revision each year.

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Environment

I am “deeply moved by beauty, whether it’s a masterfully designed environment, a breath-taking work of art, or a song that touches my heart.” I find it easiest to concentrate on work when I am surrounded by beauty whilst also creating beauty. I “need my environments to be organized. I am not the type to alphabetize my bookshelves – as attending to tiny details in my environment can drain me – but I do need things generally picked up, put away, and clutter-free. I tend to like minimalist environments, because too much stuff in sight can overwhelm my already busy mind.” I also simply love a bare room with a beautiful floor for expressive dancing.

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Intuition

“Introverted Intuition, or Ni for short, is my main cognitive attitude,” also known as my dominant function as an INFJ. My “Ni collects seemingly random details from the world, assimilates, and then is able to pull out astute conclusions that stupefy bystanders with their accuracy and insight.” Many INFJs report not knowing how they come to these conclusions, but I often am able to trace the steps my mind took to come to the conclusion. My awareness of my subconscious processes is extraordinary.
“For example, I would meet an individual and my spidey senses would start tingling, telling me to avoid this person, and later, I would hear how this individual had swindled money from several of my friends and relatives. Or I would meet a lovey-dovey couple and instantly sense they were on the verge of breaking up, and a few days later, they separated.” With couples that aren’t bound to last longer than two more years I can usually tell within a couple months of accuracy how soon they will break up.
“I wish to convey this message to all intuitive people out there – not only to other INFJs – that your intuition is your best friend.” Hence, I’ve taught Dream Interpretation Workshops and Intuitive Gardening. Everyone can access inner wisdom from the masses of data subconsciously collected – it just comes more naturally to INFJs (and INFPs too, for that matter).

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Romance

I have been known to “try on different identities, or enter into relationships with people who are vastly different from me in the search for who I am. Without intimate self-knowledge, I feel lost and aimless.” I “rarely disregard others’ viewpoints; I generally try to look at the topic through someone else’s eyes, and treat everyone’s opinion as worthy. Even when I don’t agree with someone, I can usually see where they’re coming from.”
I have “zero interest in casual dating in a world that’s obsessed with flings and one-night stands.” I “live for an authentic experience and I’m not satisfied by relationships founded on non-emotional benefits.”
My “interest in human development applies to my mates as well, and I am encouraging of my partners’ dreams, aspirations, and achievements.” Sometimes this just looks like me creating “ridiculous standards for other people in my mind and then become disappointed when they fail to live up to them.” It is important to understand that I “not only hold myself to a brutally high standard, but I also tend to set high expectations for others. And the closer you get to me – as a significant other, a best friend, or child – the higher the standards rise.”
Nevertheless, my “nonstop search for learning, self-growth, and development – and wishing the same for everyone else – makes me very reassuring to others” in a general sense. I am often told that I am an inspiration, which in turn inspires me.
I “want a high degree of intimacy and emotional engagement, and I am happiest when I feel that I am sharing my innermost thoughts and feelings with my mates.” I “value a partner who respects my deeply held values and ethics, and one who appreciates my creativity and inspiration.” In fact, I’ve learned to dismiss potential partners who do not appreciate my home-made, home-dyed clothing, or the board games I create. If these facets are not interesting aspects of me, then we are not a good match.

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Belonging

I “kind of fit in everywhere but really fit in nowhere.”
I am “just idealistic enough to conceive of a Utopian society but just realistic enough to understand all of the reasons why it could never exist.”

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Imagination

“While my vivid imagination benefits me as a creative type, it is very easy for me to get lost inside of my mind and out of touch with reality.” I even “bump into poles while walking and trip over my own feet because I am busy daydreaming.”
I “reflect at length on issues of ethics.” Specifically for that reason, I found the anime Death Note worthy of years of contemplation. In 2013 I launched my first edition of my game Conscience, the game of ethical quandaries, which is now my best seller.
I am “intensely idealistic, and can clearly imagine a happier and more perfect future.” However, I am easily “discouraged by the harsh realities of the present.”
I “can be ruthlessly self-critical, and that’s one of the reasons guilt preys on me.”

INFJ Quotes That Describe Me: Socializing

I can “appear cold and standoffish, especially when deep in thought.” I am highly “reluctant to engage with others who might not understand or appreciate me.” I’ve been repeatedly hurt by mistakenly opening myself to others who dismissed me, invalidated me, or even shamed me for my most cherished insights and experiences. Now, my “sentimental nature may not come through when I am being guarded with my heart,” or daydreaming, “but as I slowly open up around trustworthy people, my capacity to connect with others on a deeper level is unparalleled.” In my teens and early twenties I was particularly “guilty of pushing people away and throwing a pity party. Of course, I’d want someone to confide in, but more often than not, I feel that most people wouldn’t understand me even if we did open up.” These days I just try to be upfront that I want understanding, accepting attention.
I am “fascinated by people — how they make decisions and what drives them. I enjoy the chance to engage with their perspective.” I particularly “want to hear the secret thoughts you’re afraid to utter.”
I am “complicated myself, and so I can understand and deal with complex ethical issues, and with deeply troubled individuals.” It is easy for me to empathize with the people that others deem the ‘scum of society’ because I have found the fragments of myself that reflect these broken individuals; I can give them true acceptance and validation, which helps them accept themselves and thereby helps them heal.
With my “loved ones, I am loyal and compassionate, warm-hearted, and sentimental. I value relationships with an intensity and intimacy that can surpass shallow bonds and resonate on a ‘soul’ level.” I open up to people I trust and I “feel better just being able to express my feelings and concerns.” I feel most safe if I know you won’t “judge, criticize, or offer solutions.”
“Thanks to my Ni and Fe functions, I excel at predicting what people will do.” When my Se and Fe are active and coordinating well together, I “read between the lines, pick up on nonverbal cues, and note the disparity between what you’re saying and what you really feel.”
My “sensitivity also makes me a gifted healer, highly attuned to what other people need in their journey towards personal development. I use my emotional intelligence to excel in teaching, counseling, and coaching. I inspire great personal growth in others as well as social change.”
However, “if you want to hear only what you want to hear, do not come to me. I give honest opinions; I try to do so gently to soften the blow.” Sometimes I may be too “brutally honest, but I’m rarely malicious.” In fact, I think I’ve only done one or two malicious things in my life, both of which were in my teenage years (and they were directed at someone who was clearly being malicious toward me).
I am “talented at making connections to bring people together and integrate ideas, values, and human potential.” The most awesome example of this was two friends of mine coming to the raw potlucks I hosted and eventually getting married.
My “friends, family, and loved ones call me psychic.” I “have dreams and premonitions that come to life.” I have “gut feelings that, while at the time seem ridiculous, are later confirmed by unexpected life events.” “The truth is, I’ve already had multiple conversations with you – you just weren’t physically present when they occurred.”
In my teens it was common for me to have “a clear idea of something in my mind, but it was nearly impossible to convey it using words, so I would talk around the concept for hours and end up making everyone more confused than ever.” By my mid-twenties I had no problem getting my ideas into words – but not everyone is ready to hear and understand what I have to say.
Once I have “made up my mind, I tend to be very confident in my conclusions and not have much tolerance for those who continue to dissent. When someone challenges my conclusions, I can react very strongly.” Usually I argue people down and relish in any triumph where I prove myself right through my wits and swift words. Nevertheless, I am “especially vulnerable to criticism.” I argue so vehemently because I feel I defending my very identity. What seem like mere ideas to others feel like cherished, hard-won parts of my soul to me.
I can “have a difficult time setting boundaries with toxic people at the onset, but I eventually reach my limit.” I “tolerate numerous transgressions prior to ending a relationship.” Over time I have learned that when I am “feeling frustrated or introspective, I must retreat from social contact” to recharge and find myself again.
I am “among the most social of introverts. Sometimes I am mistaken for an extrovert. However, as a true introvert, I get drained by small talk and the trappings of socializing. Rather than social contact, I need human contact – that is, mutual human understanding. I need people who can enter into my private, inner world. I need people who will listen without judging and try to see the world from my unique perspective — even if it’s just a glimpse. These people are hard to come by, but they are absolutely necessary for my happiness.”
Sources include: Jenn Granneman, Heidi Priebe ENFP, Shahida Arabi, Truity, Amy Wannenburgh INFJ, David Keirsey, Amelia Brown INFJ, Jess Chua INFJ, Nele Giese INFJ, Boom Shikha INFJ, Otto Kroeger, Will Gemma

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Saturday, September 14, 2019

How to Become Polyamorous

I have a stable monogamous relationship right now, but I'm interested in acquiring someone who would be like a sister to my wife and and a lover to me. How can I manifest that?
Getting into polyamory is really all about mastering monogamy and relationships in general. The better you are at directly asking for your needs, owning up to yourself what your needs actually are, admitting when you've been wrong, etc, the easier it is to manifest and maintain multiple relationships.

Practical Polyamory Tips

  • Attend polyamory-themed events and gatherings.
  • Buy polyamory-themed game to help prepare you and your partner for polyamorous life situations.
  • Read polyamory-themed forums.
  • Read books or listen to podcasts about relationships in general. I prefer Teal Swan for relationship advice.
  • Communicate a lot with your existing partner about what you want, what both of you need to feel safe and happy, and where your limits are and where her limits are.
  • Develop a clear idea of both what you have to offer in a relationship and what you want to get out of it.
  • When meeting potential people, bring up your unmet needs and also ask them about theirs. Two people who go well together are two people who can meet each other's unmet needs much more easily than they can meet their own.
I highly recommend reading these related articles to gain further understanding on relationships and polyamory in particular:

Saturday, August 24, 2019

Where does a RAW vegan get protein? | Raw vegans don't eat beans!?

How can you get enough protein on a raw vegan diet?
A raw vegan diet does not contain any:
  • Meat
  • Dairy
  • Eggs
  • Fish
  • Beans (unless sprouted raw)
  • Rice (unless soaked and consumed raw)
So where does the protein come from?

Michelle Battermann

Michelle (pictured to the right) is a raw vegan fitness champion. (She mentioned to me personally that she hates the fake tan, but that it is required for body building competitions so that muscle definition stands out when you're under bright lights on the stage.)
How does Michelle get such a strong muscular body when she eats a purely raw and vegan diet?

Raw Vegan Protein

The raw vegan diet provides protein predominantly in its basic form; amino acids. And it provides plenty of it. [1]
Raw Vegan Muscle Comes From Vegetables Poster compiled by Raederle

Do meat-eaters build muscle faster than vegetarians?

The simple answer is: No. If adequate minerals, protein, vitamins, exercise, etc, are present, muscle building is the same, regardless of the protein source.
In 2003 a study was published in the Journal of Sport and Nutrition and Exercise Metabolism. They had vegetarians and meat eaters perform the same training protocol over eight weeks.
The vegetarian group ate 450 fewer calories than the meat eaters. The vegetarians ate 79 grams of protein per day, and the meat-eaters ate 138 grams of protein per day.
All groups showed the same muscle growth, which was two to five pounds of muscle gained.
I personally do not recommend eating 79 grams of protein per day. I'd like to see a study where people eating 35 grams of protein per day did the same exercises as people eating 60 or more grams. From everything I've experienced, seen and read, I believe they would have the same results.

Can cooking food reduce the protein content?

Fruits, vegetables, nuts, seeds and sprouts do not require cooking. In fact, cooking food reduces food in more ways than just volume – it reduces the usable amino acid content of the food.
Cooking reduces:
  • Flavor
  • Color
  • Digestibility
  • Vitamin C
  • Enzymes a. k. a. Protein
And what's worse, cooking requires electricity, gas or wood. We're using energy and resources to reduce our food's nutrition!
When proteins are subjected to high heat during cooking, enzyme resistant linkages are formed between the amino acid chains. The body cannot separate these amino acids. What the body cannot use, it must eliminate. [2]

Can a cooked protein be considered a toxin?

Anything that can not be used by the body is a toxin that the body must find a way to get rid of. With this definition of toxin, cooked foods contain a lot more toxins than is thought – more than “just” the acrylamide formed when frying, baking or toasting. Acrylamide is a serious carcinogenic toxin that is often overlooked by nutritionists, dietitians and doctors.
When we consume refined sugar, our body can't use all of the sugar, and thereby must pass it. In order to pass sugar, it must be carried in the bloodstream. In order to carry it in the blood stream the body must bind the sugar to a mineral, generally calcium. This calcium is often taken directly from our bones. [3] (This also happens with phosphorus.)
Like refined sugars (cane sugar, corn syrup, molasses, syrup, etc), cooked proteins are a source of toxicity: dead organic waste material acted upon and elaborated by bacterial flora.
This dead organic waste is what makes you smell when you use the bathroom. Eating raw and effectively detoxing will actually cause that toxic smell to go away with time. [4]

What is a living food? And why does it really matter that the food is alive?

When you cook something, you denature its enzymes. Enzymes are long chains of amino acids. And what is protein made up of? Amino acids.
What happens if you burn your finger? The skin tissue dies.
What happens when you cook your food? The food dies.
Before whole foods are cooked, they may still grow if planted. Their seeds will still sprout.
Try this at home: Take a leek from the grocery store and chop off the top of it, leaving only two or three inches at the bottom. Place this bottom in a glass with a little water. Change the water every day or two, and watch it grow. You can plant in the ground if you like.
This also works with celery. [5]
I've done both successfully on several occasions. I put my celery in vases when I buy it, filling the water up to a half inch at the bottom of the vase. It keeps the celery growing right up until the moment I consume it.
Fresh food – prior to wilting or rotting – sustains life. Freshly picked plants are bursting with nutrition that is highly bio-available to humans.
Think about this: Every animal on the planet eats food as it is growing. Most animals don't even pick food prior to putting it in their mouth. Cows, horses, elephants – all of these animals walk up to a bush or tuft of grass and they bite into it. For a more extensive look at the difference between the way animals eat and the way humans eat, look at this article.

Why and how we are ruining our foods' nutrition

Everything we do to food reduces its wealth of nutrition:
  • Storing food reduces nutrition. The more time passes from the time a food is picked, the more the enzymes do their job and become unavailable for doing their job inside our stomach. Enzymes rot, wilt and ripen foods, but if consumed immediately after harvesting, these enzymes play a vital role in digestion.
Modern food practices include waxes, preservatives, and tricks like freezing. These tricks “preserve the corpse” of the food to make it look as though it's still rich in those vital enzymes.
In order to get the most out your food: buy local, shop at your farmer's market, and grow your own. The less shipping time, the less time between the time it's picked and the time you eat it.
For optimal results, eat home-grown and wild raw foods.
  • Chopping food reduces nutrition. When you slice food, oxidation begins to occur, reducing the existence of available vitamin C in the food. Oxidation causes foods to brown. If you see foods losing color in your blender, that is because the food is oxidizing.
The above is also why you should buy a masticating juicer. A masticating juicer does not contain blades. It essentially mashes your food until the juice comes out, without ever cutting the food. This preserves the fresh flavor and nutrition. [6]
  • Mixing food types reduces digestive absorption. Certain foods require alkaline digestive enzymes while others require acidic digestive enzymes. If both are released at once, they are both neutralized and rendered useless. Neither food digests fully. When food is not digested fully, it passes into the intestines where bacteria feast. [7]
Depending on how healthy your intestines are, this could be a serious problem, or just a minor issue of not absorbing nutrition from a given meal. If your intestinal flora is out of balance (due to Candida, parasites, or antibiotics), then feeding the bad flora in your gut can cause uncomfortable symptoms (gas pains, bloating, smelly burps and gas, painful bowel movements, etc), and if this pattern is sustained, life-altering symptoms (inability to remember efficiently, foggy mind, itchy scalp, flaky skin, acne, etc).

Simplified food combination rules:

Fruits are best consumed alone at least thirty minutes before eating other foods, and at least two hours after eating other foods. Plain fruit is an excellent breakfast. Ideally melon should only be eaten with other melon (cantaloupe and honeydew), and sweet fruits only with other sweet fruits (banana with mango), and acid fruits only with acid fruits (lemon with pineapple).

Leafy greens and celery may be combined with everything.

Fats should be limited, as they slow all digestion down. Fats should be held off until after lunch so as not to drag you down throughout the day. Fats should only be mixed with non-starchy vegetables.

Fats should not be consumed too close to bed time because of their long digestion time. It disrupts your hormonal balance to digest food while you're sleeping.

Thereby, it's ideal to skip eating fats some days, and save fats for days when you're not very active, and it isn't too hot (digesting fat raises your body temperature). On the days when you do consume fats (oils, nuts, seeds, avocados, coconuts, olives), aim to eat it with vegetables (not fruits) six hours before bed time. Do not consume fruits for at least four hours after eating fats.
  • Cooking food destroys the bio-availability of enzymes. This is explained throughout this page, including in the videos that follow.
  • Dehydrated food is hard to assimilate. [8] Dehydrated food has little to no water content. The body is made up of 80% water. Ideally, our food should be 80% or more water.
The above are just a few common examples of what you might be doing to your food to reduce its nutrition. It's not that you should necessarily strive to never do these things again. On the contrary, most of my recipes call for doing many of the things above. The point is to become aware of how perfect foods are straight from the ground they grow in.
However, I want to make one thing clear. Do not embark on a 100% raw vegan if you're unclear about anything. There are mistakes that can be made that have serious consequences. I advise either getting an experienced raw vegan coach, doing a lot of research on your own or following a detailed nutritionally complete meal plan.

What are your priorities?

While economy, ecology and ethics are very important, you can't do anything for anybody without your health. I recommend making your health your number one priority. Everything else tumbles if you don't have your health.
You will not become deficient in protein on a raw vegan diet. All you need to do is eat enough calories and you will get plenty of protein. The only exception to this is when following a fully fruitarian diet, which I do not recommend.
How can it be possible that any combination of fruits and vegetables will give you enough protein?

Tim Van Orden

Tim Van Orden of Running Raw is a stunning example of a person who defies everything we know about protein. He doesn't even eat nuts or seeds on his raw vegan diet! Listen to what he has to say about this topic in the stunning four minute video below.
Bottom line: The more fresh things you eat, the more amino acids are in your body. The more amino acids, the more effective you can build muscle. You don't need "protein" as we know it.

Okinawa has some of the healthiest people in the world... How much protein do they eat?

Okinawa life expectancy: 86
U.S.A. life expectancy: 70
Okinawa calories from carbs 84%.
U.S.A. calories from carbs: 42%.
Okinawa calories from protein: 9%.
U.S.A. calories from protein: 16%.
What can we learn from this? A high-protein diet is not the answer. In Okinawa they eat a lot of fermented vegetables, sweet potatoes, fresh fruits such as mangoes and passionfruits, green tea, white rice, and fresh greens. Not a bunch of meat, nuts, and beans. They also consume small amounts of natto regularly, which is a particular form of fermented soy high in vitamin K2, which is why their rate of hip fractures is virtually non-existent. In the western world it is rare that we get enough vitamin K2 because our diets rarely have a source for it. Today, with growing awareness of this issue, you can now find organic natto available in many supermarkets in the refrigerated section.

Don Bennett explains the details; the relationship between protein and amino acids

Don Bennett explains the details of protein and amino acids in an eight minute video below. I do not believe that his wording is 100% accurate in all ways, but it gets the picture across, and Tim and Michelle are just two of hundreds of athletes who are proving that a raw vegan diet supplies muscles fantastically.

My Personal Experience

This is not something most doctors know. My doctor cautioned me away from a vegan diet because she believed I would neglect protein. She even said, “You can't get enough protein from nuts.”
And yet, I have not lost muscle since I became a raw vegan. In fact, I have more muscle mass now than ever before in my life. I can lift more weight than ever before, run longer than ever before, walk longer, and climb more steps without becoming winded. In fact, I was able to run up seven flights of stairs (2011) without any trouble when visiting a community building and too impatient to wait for the elevator. I was astounded by this, because a year previously I had attempted this same trick and had given up after walking up two flights.
Before I became a raw vegan in the summer of 2010, I couldn't even walk one mile without experiencing pain. Now, I can walk all day without side stitches, gas pains, feet pains or becoming winded. And as far as raw diets go, mine doesn't even focus on getting maximum amino acids.
The really ironic part about the statement “You can't get enough protein from nuts,” is that nuts are actually not the ideal source of protein. Vegetables are the ideal source of protein. Over the course of my twenties (2009 to 2019), my primary source of protein has been lettuce, and I've always felt at my best when eating a huge salad each day. During periods of time where I neglected my daily salad I felt a significant drop in my energy levels and strength – and my salads rarely have any nuts in them at all.

How can you get more amino acids?

If you want to focus on getting maximum amino acids, focus on eating sprouts and young, green plants. These young, green plants contains multitudes of bio-available amino acids because they have a tremendous stockpile unfolding to create an entire plant. One tiny sprout contains the “life force” to create an entire head of broccoli, or an entire cabbage, or entire sunflower stalk. Imagine what a cup full of sprouts has to offer!
Some people struggle with maintaining a weight that they feel is healthy on a raw vegan diet – but this is generally not due to a lack of protein. These people may have one the following problems:
  • Poor digestion and/or a flora imbalance (not absorbing nutrients from food)
  • Confused body image (surrounded by fat people)
  • Lack of amino acids (not eating baby plants)
  • Lack of calories (not eating enough)
  • Lack of exercise (a sedentary lifestyle means little muscle mass)

Do you have poor digestion?

If your digestion is poor, avoid consuming too much fat. (Aim for 9% to 20% of your calories from fat.) I recommend a teaspoon of seeds per day, soaked and rinsed. That will provide enough fat as a base minimum. If you want more, add in quality flax oil, avocados, hemp oil, MCT oil, and olives. In nature, enough fat is often found just by eating the seeds of the vegetables or fruits you are eating. (Although some seeds are non-ideal for digestion, such as cucumber seeds, pumpkin seeds, and other squash seeds. Other seeds, like raspberry seeds, are quite good for you.)
Doing a juice feast can help digestion. A juice feast means lots of fresh fruit and fresh vegetables juiced with a masticating juicer. I have a friend who personally found that juice helped her reach a weight she desired on the raw vegan diet. (She had previously felt she was underweight.)

Do you have a confused body image?

If you feel you need more fat on your body to look and feel healthy, surround yourself with live people, media and images of muscular people. Join a running club and notice the shape and form of athletic people who seem healthy to you. Attend yoga classes and notice the form of people who are highly capable and have stamina all through class.
I developed my ideals for the shape I want during yoga class. I find that the women in yoga look like I want to look. Not overly muscular and not really thin. Capable, strong women who do a lot of yoga tend to have heavily muscled thighs, buttocks and shoulders, while having thin waists, toned abdomens, toned slender calves, and defined medium-sized arms. I personally find this form the most attractive and natural on a woman. I notice this form is not small, nor bulky, nor does it contain excess fat.
Cultivating a sense of what healthy people look like will help you straighten out your idea for what you want yourself to look like.

Do you lack in fuel, calories or amino acids?

Try tracking your calories using some internet service. Google "calorie counter" and many options will come up. Track how many calories you eat per day for a week. If you're getting more than 2,000 a day, then you're probably fine on that note. If you're getting less than 1,200, this can be a serious problem. Eat more fruit if you're lacking calories. Five mangoes, for example, can be one of five meals you eat in a day. Also, you can add more flax oil, hemp oil, MCT oil, or avocado oil to your salads. Each tablespoon of oil is 100 calories.
If you're simply lacking muscle fuel, try drinking blended green leafy vegetables and sprouts, freshly juiced vegetables and sprouts, and eating salads with lots of sprouts. If you don't like sprouts, mix them into guacamole, spicy salsa, or disguise them in small amounts in sweet smoothies (using bananas, peaches, mangoes, etc) and juices (using oranges, lemons, grapefruits, etc).

Are you lacking in exercise?

Try new activities. Chances are that you're bored with the methods you currently are using.
Try long walks with friend or a partner. Join a jogging club. Take your bike to work. Try yoga, and if you can't afford the usual class cost then use meetup.com to seek out local donation-based community classes.
Try getting a rebounder (small trampoline), a jump-rope, a hula-hoop, or an exercise ball. Try getting a set of tiny three-pound weights to use while dancing or doing pilates. Try going ice-skating or roller-blading. If you can afford it, go skiing or snowboarding. Go swimming. Take up martial arts, tai chi, or dance classes. Take up a sport. As a last resort, try going to the gym.
If you're like me, then you might prefer staying at home to exercise. I use YouTube videos on yoga, chi gong, pilates, and dance. I always learn something new, which keeps things interesting. In 2012 I got a rebounder (small trampoline) to help my lymphatic flow but eventually decided it wasn't promoting enough spontaneous exercise. In 2019 I bought a DDR (Dance Dance Revolution) mat and StepMania and found it to be the most effective way to consistently get myself to exercise daily. Find what works for you.

Your Problem Is Not Lack Of Protein

In any case, if you have trouble gaining muscle, it's not a lack of protein. If you feel somehow sick or unwell without eating beans, meat or dairy, it's not a lack of protein. Often when people say they are craving protein and reach for a handful of almonds, they're actually craving fat. While some people do feel unwell on a raw diet or a vegan diet at first, it's usually detoxification systems. Detoxing too fast is one of the most common mistakes.
While a protein deficiency is possible, it is very rare. I advise looking into every other possibility thoroughly before coming to the conclusion that you need more protein. It is very possible that you're deficient in some other essential component for health, such as vitamin B12, which is a common deficiency among omnivores, vegetarians, vegans and raw vegans alike.

Your Problem Might Be Too Much Protein

In the video below, Dr. Tel Oren MD discusses the topic protein at length. He explains that many Americans eat so much protein that the protein is making them sick. Even vegans are getting health problems due to too much protein because of the rampant belief that we need more.
Many well-meaning companies are using hemp seeds or whey in their products so that they can proudly boast "high protein" on the label, and yet the products are actually harmful because of the excess in which people consume protein.
Dr. Tel explains that 35 grams of protein per day is ample protein, and yet few people consume less than 50 grams of protein in a day, and many people who eat a lot of meat or who eat a lot of specialty high-protein foods eat as much as 200 grams of protein per day!

More Videos

In the short videos below you'll find healthy raw vegans showing their muscles, creativity, knowledge and lifestyle.

Sources

I would be delighted for you to check out all of these sources. Of course, much of what I write is from memory (and often I discover the same information in many forms from many sources), but here are some sources I have read:
P.S.: I must note, it is possible to not be assimilating all the amino acids you're eating into protein. This is not a lack of eating protein, this would be a bodily dysfunction, most likely due to lifestyle. The only way to know if this is the case is to get your blood tested. If that is the case, I would personally recommend a green juice feast for a week as a big step to remedying the issue.
To your good health!
~ Raederle Phoenix
P.P.S.: My raw vegan meal plans provide 50 grams of protein per day on average. (On an average of 1950 calories per day.)

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